#SharingTheLoad - Life's cool

#ShareTheLoad

There is an ardent need to swipe away the taboo from the society of considering house hold works as just woman’s job. It must be taken into account and considered that woman these days are heading ahead and taking up lead into all the sectors and arenas of life. All should be given equal chances to lead and flourish.

The solutions of these could begin when the habits of  carrying out the household responsibilities are taught from the childhood days when the children are ready to take up such responsibilities. This would enable them to learn the art of self management and discipline on their own and in their early days of nourishment which would lead to diminishing of pressure on the woman in the home and also shall make them effective into life’s activities. This would mean that everyone in the family is accountable and responsible for one’s own clothings and belongings. This leads to the generation of better morals into children where enhanced learning and practical lessons of life are learnt along with other lessons in different walks of life.

Discipline itself flows into the life when one accepts one’s own responsibilities and takes better steps to follow it. Laundry and management is not merely a woman’s job and should not be imposed on her. Another measure could be doing the job collectively on fixed particular day of the week when the members are available to take up the job by dividing the work amongst them.

In the times that we are heading and leading ourselves to, these household chores are no longer just a woman’s job. It is low strata of the state of mind incase it is considered so and must be tied and thrown away in the bins. Everyone must be equally responsible to take up the task and assist in the work.

Even prior to the times that we are in, it was even difficult to think and raise voice over this issue. Now a days, with the changing patterns of society and human psychology, there are changes being seen, but we are way back to accept and absorb this into the mainstream ideas and welcome the changes whole-heartedly.

It is essential that we as humans understand and handle the independency in all ways, and must be ready to welcome all sort of responsibilities. The household activities should not be just woman’s job. The responsibilities must be equally shared among all members of the house. The members should appreciate and consider taking up tasks and responsibilities instead of imposing certain tasks on just woman’s shoulders.

These long prevailing old taboos and traditions should be washed away from the society and initiatives should be taken to make the journey worth while and lovely in all the possible ways without holding any grudges in life.

“I am writing for the #ShareTheLoad activity at BlogAdda.com in association withAriel.”

Feeling of togetherness - #together

It is indeed a blessing in life to spend the time with the near and dear ones. They are some of the greatest moments for an individual. There are multiple reasons to cheer which could range from smaller ones to the major ones. For example, when one is too happy and excited, one can share the happiness with others around the person and the happiness shall multiply. Also, when one feels sad or feels low in life, one can share it with the near one and find the solution to the problem, and thus sort out the problem in some or the other way. We all face the challenges in life and we must accept the need and importance of the caring hearts in our life.

There are several instances in my life when I have felt special. There have been moments in my life when others have made me feel special. I have also made others feel special about them. It is indeed a great feeling to make oneself and others joyous and smile about all the best things that is bestowed upon all of us in the form of great blessings. I would love to quote an instance below which had been one of the memorable days of my life.

It was in December last year, when I was blessed with a baby girl and I wanted to share my happiness with the maximum number of people. I had all the reasons to be happy on this day. I was taking a step into parenthood. It was a great feeling. A sense of responsibility was coming in me. I was loving each and every moment of the day since the doctor came out and delivered the news. I wanted my baby to be in my hands at the earliest. I was waiting for the moment when doctor would be giving the baby to us after keeping her under observation for some time.

Meanwhile, I met everyone in my family. I was on bed but it was great to see near and dear ones around me. I asked my husband to get sweets and gifts for everyone in the family. I wanted everyone to feel special and happy about the day. My husband had to be given the special gift for he is the father to my child and there was no better feeling that I ever sensed.

As soon as baby was brought before us, my joys got multiplied and I was impatient to hold her in my arms. She smiled and made me smile. I thanked God for a beautiful and a healthy baby doll. The baby was given to mother. Everyone in the family was very happy and I was happy to see everyone smiling. 

In the evening I asked my husband to distribute food to the poor and needy people near the temple area and distributed sweets among them.  On my way back I got a cake for celebrating the birth of my baby girl. In the evening we all enjoyed and had a good time. I was entering a new phase in my life. I was loving every bit of it. I still thank God for bestowing upon me a great blessing.

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#StartANewLife - Beautiful life

Life is a beautiful gift that is being gifted to us by Almighty and by our parents. We must make the best out of our life and come as achievers. It is important that we do not lose hope at the failures that we come across the journey of life, instead we should take them as challenges and emerge successful in our life.

Life presents several opportunities before us and we should be wise enough to pick the best one for ourselves considering our interest and make an impact into ours and others life. This would brings the positive rays of hope and optimism in the life which would make the difficulties to seem easier in life.

Taking the strong and concrete steps in life is important as this would determine the future of our own self and the people associated with us. It should leave a positive mark in our life. It should serve as a motivation for an individual and should take the individual on the path of success.

The bold step that I took in life was to start my own art and craft, cookery and painting classes. I initially started with classes at my home and later I began to take classes at an institution near by where I learnt several new things like how to manage and teach others in a disciplined professional manner. It was a great task and achievement for me as females at my home hardly walked out and earned their living. I was doing quite well and taking the good steps ahead in life.

That was not enough and I had to step further. I decided to start a small school of my own and take up the activities and classes over there. I planned it out well with my husband and he supported me with my initiative. He motivated me at each step.

At my small school, I started taking lessons for different age-groups. It started giving me more confidence. I learned to manage things on my own. With the support of my family, I was making the positive changes in my life and trying to make a difference in my life. It brought several changes in me. Also, I could learn to manage different responsibilities and different aspects of my life in a healthy manner and take them in a responsible way.

Initially it was a difficult step for me but later on it turned out to be quite fruitful and encouraging for me and my family. I was earning appreciation from family members and they supported me in this initiative.

These days I also take up my work to exhibitions and it serves as a great motivation for me. The appreciation is a beautiful thing in life, and when it comes for the hard work and efforts that one puts in is again a great feeling in life.

One should not be afraid to take up the initiative and strong steps in life and should be ready to face the challenges that would come in the path.

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The beautiful aspect of life - Optimism!

Optimism is a great virtue in life and it is a great possession of an individual. One should take a lead in life with great hopes which makes an individual to take the strong stands in life. The positivity in life is a great attribute of an individual which makes one to stand with great aspirations in life. Good hopes and spirits in life can be maintained through the high levels of optimism. These make the person to achieve great heights in life with great standards of discipline and morals.

It is important in life that an individual takes the learning in life from different aspects of life. There are lots of learning ways and methods around an individual from whom the individual should draw the lessons of optimism and positivity in life. The drives in life should be taken in a positive manner.

The lessons of optimism that I drew in life are from several people in life from different walks of life.  I am going to share and narrate an incident which made me to look at life with positive attitude and hopeful aspirations in life.

Since my childhood days, my father used to take me and my brother to orphan home and old age home during the weekends. When we used to come back, my father used to narrate and tell us stories on these various aspects of life and used to ask us about our learnings based on our observations. We used to play with the kids, give them gifts and got engaged into conversations with them.

As I grew up, I started learning a lot of things in life with several different perspectives in life.  This made to me to look at life with broader perspective and with a broader horizon. I started analysing about the importance of things in the little joys and pleasures of life. My parents were happy about the learning that I absorbed and adopted in life.

I understood that I am a blessed child and have lots of privileges and advantages in life over several people. I learned to look at life in a positive manner. I learned to smile and live life with high spirits in life. We should not frown at small disappointments in life and instead face them bravely. The obstacles in life are meant to teach us the important lessons in life. One should never lower down the morale and instead work with enthusiasm and optimism in life. This shall pave the path of progress and development for an individual.

Now, when I remember those days, I wish to grant my children the important learnings of life and make them appreciate and learn the beauty and blessings of life. It is important for every individual to learn and realise the essence of life in a positive manner and face the challenges bravely and in a courageous manner.

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The Faith that develops!

Surrendering

of the hopes 

and dreams

to the limitations

does no justice

and leads to

the harm one's

own intellect

and faith

in our lives.

Restoring

the acts of faith

and confidence

into our soul

and accepting

the truth based

upon realities

makes us the

artists of our

own destiny.

The Rising Up!

Wake up yourself
to the beautiful
morning sunrise
and spend the 
lustrous time 
with the nature
for it has
bestowed upon
the humanity
and mankind
the amazing 
splashes of
charity and
wisdom,
for we must
at the least
absorb and realize
and appreciate
for these immense
blissful blessings.

The Bond of love!

The depth of love, climbing up the steps

Longing upon to lay the life for an individual

With all the powers conspiring within the bodily soul

Of the mind, of the body, of the heart

With the personal closeness within me

Not holding out on malice against one other

To love till the zenith of a relation

And take out the hidden emotions inside me

To twist towards divinity within

furnishing the needs of the affinity

Treading to the bliss blowing

With the soul meant for blessing

It's not  the marriages that fail

They are the spirits within the humans that frail

The matrimony is just another knock

To the friendship that can rock.

Just another subject

Affixed to the roll of accomplishments

The Expectations are customary

That brings out the fulfillment of vows

For the absolute mental and spiritual attainment

The likelihood is boundless..